ABOUT LOVESPIEL
About AI Couples Therapy & Counselling
An Unbiased and Engaging Process of Change
THE HUMANS BEHIND LOVESPIEL APS
AI Trained by an Experienced Couples Therapist
Max B. Pedersen, PhD
The Lovespiel AI couples counsellor is primarily trained by Max B. Pedersen, PhD. Max is a clinical psychologist and trainer of couples counsellors, and still provides face-to-face couples therapy. Max is the founder of Lovespiel and head of bot training.
The Team
Lovespiel employs a team of counsellors and technical engineers. Our focus is to offer you the best trained AI couples counsellor on the market at a competitive price.
GETTING STARTED
Begin Your Journey with an AI Couples Counsellor
Taking the First Step
Starting counselling as a couple is a brave and meaningful choice. Many couples hesitate because they worry about judgment, cost, or simply not knowing where to begin. An AI couples counsellor offers a safe, gentle introduction to the counselling process. Available at any time, it provides a supportive space where both partners can share their feelings, practise better communication, and explore new ways of understanding each other. For couples who are curious about therapy but not ready to commit to a human counsellor, this can be a compassionate and accessible first step.
Why Not Just Use a Generic Chatbot such as ChatGPT or Gemini?
Tools like ChatGPT, Gemini or other general chatbots are designed to handle a wide range of topics, from writing emails to answering trivia. While they are powerful, they are not built for the sensitive and structured work of relationship support. A generic chatbot may provide inconsistent answers depending on how questions are phrased, and it cannot keep track of the ongoing dynamics between two people. This often leads to advice that feels shallow, irrelevant, or disconnected from your unique situation. When it comes to something as personal as your relationship, a one-size-fits-all chatbot simply isn't enough.
WHY CUSTOM-TRAINED
The Advantages of a Custom AI Couples Counsellor
A custom-trained AI couples counsellor is designed specifically for relationship support. Unlike a general chatbot, it is built on counselling principles such as active listening, empathy, and conflict resolution. It learns to adapt to your communication style and relationship goals, creating conversations that feel relevant and constructive. Over time, it can help you notice recurring patterns, highlight progress, and provide steady guidance that keeps you focused on growth as a couple. This specialised design allows couples to receive more consistent, meaningful, and safe support than they would from a generic AI system.
Privacy and Control Over Your Data
One of the greatest strengths of a custom AI is the ability to safeguard your privacy. With an AI couples counsellor, you maintain control over what information is stored and how it is used. Unlike generic platforms, which may use your data to improve broad language models, a custom system can be configured to keep your conversations private and secure. You choose what is remembered and what is erased, ensuring that your sessions remain confidential. This control gives couples the peace of mind needed to speak openly about sensitive issues, knowing their trust will not be compromised.
Multilingual, Culturally Sensitive, and Non-Judgmental Support
Every couple's story is shaped by language, culture, and personal background. A well-trained AI couples counsellor can offer multilingual support, helping partners communicate in the languages they feel most comfortable with. You can find the full list of supported languages below. It can also be sensitised to cultural values and norms, reducing the risk of misinterpretation or bias. Most importantly, it maintains a non-judgmental approach at all times. Unlike a conversation with friends or family, the AI will never take sides, assign blame, or dismiss your feelings. This neutrality creates a safe space where both partners can feel equally heard and respected, no matter their background or perspective.
The Importance of Expert Training
Behind every effective AI couples counsellor lies expert training. Relationship specialists and counsellors guide the design of the system, ensuring it reflects proven therapeutic practices rather than generic conversation patterns. This training is what allows the AI to encourage active listening, promote empathy, and suggest constructive ways forward instead of surface-level advice. Without expert input, even the most advanced AI risks offering unhelpful or even harmful guidance. By grounding the AI in professional expertise, couples receive support that is structured, trustworthy, and aligned with the values of modern counselling.
The Honest Limitations of an AI Couples Counsellor
It is important to acknowledge what an AI couples counsellor cannot do. It cannot fully replace the warmth, intuition, and human connection of a professional therapist. If your relationship involves very complex issues such as trauma or severe conflict, a human counsellor is often essential. The AI also depends on the training it has received, meaning it may not have all the answers for situations outside its scope. For this reason, it is best viewed as a supportive tool — either as a starting point for couples who are new to therapy, or as a complement to traditional counselling when additional guidance is needed.
Why Couples Choose AI Counselling
Despite its limitations, many couples find that beginning with an AI couples counsellor feels approachable and safe. It removes barriers such as scheduling, cost, and fear of judgment, making counselling more accessible to those who might otherwise avoid it. By encouraging listening, reflection, and respectful dialogue, the AI helps couples create a foundation of healthier communication. For some, this leads to improvements on its own; for others, it becomes a stepping stone that makes transitioning to human therapy much easier. Either way, it gives couples a meaningful opportunity to invest in their relationship at their own pace.
PACKAGES
Choose your package
1 month of couples counselling (approx. 8-10 sessions)
1 month of couples counselling — anytime, together, from home.
- ✔ Up to 300 messages — more than enough for 8–10 counselling conversations
- ✔ One payment — no subscription, no auto-renewal
- ✔ Private and discreet — you chat under a call name, not your real name
- ✔ 12 languages — English, German, French, Spanish, Italian, Portuguese, Danish, Norwegian, Swedish, Finnish, Chinese, and Japanese
- ✔ Built on Process Oriented Couple Therapy, a method developed by a clinical psychologist
Lovespiel is an AI counselling chatbot — a space to work on your relationship together. It is not therapy or a crisis service.
€29.00
Membership expires after 1 Month.
1 day of couples counselling (one single session)
1 day of couples counselling — anytime, together, from home.
- ✔ Up to 50 messages — enough for a single counselling session
- ✔ One payment — no subscription, no auto-renewal
- ✔ Private and discreet — you chat under a call name, not your real name
- ✔ 12 languages — English, German, French, Spanish, Italian, Portuguese, Danish, Norwegian, Swedish, Finnish, Chinese, and Japanese
- ✔ Built on Process Oriented Couple Therapy, a method developed by a clinical psychologist
Lovespiel is an AI counselling chatbot — a space to work on your relationship together. It is not therapy or a crisis service.
€9.98
Membership expires after 1 Day.
Multilingual
Our AI bot is multilingual. You can converse in your mother tongue: English, German, French, Spanish, Italian, Portuguese, Danish, Norwegian, Swedish, Finnish, Chinese, and Japanese.
You Can Start Now
You can start chatting with your AI couples counsellor as soon as you have signed up.
Confidential
Sessions are confidential and mediated by encrypted communication.
QUESTIONS
Frequently Asked Questions
Find answers to some of the most frequently asked questions about online couples counselling and therapy.
How does AI couples counselling work?
It is simple. Sign up, and your AI counsellor will guide you through the process step by step. Both you and your partner use the same device to chat.
What if my partner does not want to attend?
Sometimes only one party is motivated to change with the help of a counsellor. The Lovespiel bot is primarily trained to work with couples, but you can also use it solo — just let it know, and it will help you through the challenges you are experiencing.
Is AI couples therapy effective?
AI couples therapy is grounded in proven methods. Couples who engage genuinely in the process often experience meaningful improvements in their relationship.
Can we start AI Couples Counselling at any time?
Yes, you can start when you are ready! Our AI couples counsellors are always ready to assist you.
Is AI couples counselling available in different languages?
Yes, our AI couples counsellors are fluent in English, Spanish, German, French and Danish, and we are constantly adding new languages.
Ready to Start AI Couples Therapy?
Your relationship deserves time, care, and understanding. An AI couples counsellor offers a supportive way to begin that journey, guiding you toward better communication and deeper connection. Whether you are looking for a safe introduction to counselling, a supplement to human therapy, or simply a private space to be heard, this technology can be a valuable partner in your growth as a couple. Taking the first step may feel small, but it can be the beginning of lasting change.